No matter where you are, there is always room to grow.
You amazingly beautiful and badass babes... tell me you crave growth! Like, that gut wrench when you think of something you resent from your past, and kind of feel lost on how to heal that wound... but you WANT to so badly. Yes? Notice how it's still sticking around.
Keep listening to that feeling! That is part of the grief process. The awareness that your body is waving a flag at you, whatever color it is, is one of the super highways to growth! It's telling you to pause and dig deeper.
Where we sometimes get stuck is merging on to that highway. Grief is a tricky bitch! And much like city traffic, it can be terrifying when you're new in town!! Like seriously, terrifying. The thing is, we cannot get to growth without working through grief. Believe me, I've tried.
So here's what I need you to know:
It's going to hurt like hell sometimes.
It's going to get really uncomfortable.
It's going to break your heart.
It's going to take practice.
It's not going to be perfect.
And my darling, here's the most important thing I need you to know... It WILL set you free!!!
Getting "stuck in a rut" is just another part of the grief process. Again, much like traffic. Focus on the small steps. They may seem insignificant, but they're getting you closer. Celebrate them and keep on keepin' on!!
Did something surface for you that makes you feel ready to get through grief and get to growth? I'd love to hear from you! Email me: jennie@willpowerjennie.com.
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